PERSPECTIVE
When I was 5 years old,
my mother told me that happiness was the key to life.
When i went to school, they asked me what i wanted to be when i grew up.
I wrote down "Happy".
They told me I din't understand the assignment and I told them they din't understand Life.
Now that I am 22 years old,
When i go to work, my boss asks me what are my targets in life.
I said "To be happy".
He told me I din't understand the question and i told him "It's OK",
i have understood that everyone sees Life differently.
When I was 5 years old,
my mother told me that happiness was the key to life.
When i went to school, they asked me what i wanted to be when i grew up.
I wrote down "Happy".
They told me I din't understand the assignment and I told them they din't understand Life.
Now that I am 22 years old,
When i go to work, my boss asks me what are my targets in life.
I said "To be happy".
He told me I din't understand the question and i told him "It's OK",
i have understood that everyone sees Life differently.
HUMAN SPEECH
Talk
Thursday, March 18, 2010 @ 3:27 PM
FAMILY
today i stumbled on a critical family ordeal.
im sorry friend, i never realised that you are going through all this with your family, it makes me feel bad for not being able to be there when you need a listening ear.
only till the point when i read about it, did i realise your strong front to cope with all the negativity thats happening to your surrounding. the misunderstandings accumulated from your sister, must have been an added burden to your current situation. the pain of a possibility of losing your father, must have been a trauma to your everyday life and of course not to mention your grandmother whom is feeling tremendously affected in addition to her inevitable aging illness...
im sorry for all this and prays that you would have the strength to walk through all this crisis and see a sliver lining as soon as possible. im definitely here if im needed at any point of time but in the meantime, please bear this mind,
THIS TOO, SHALL PASS.
Monday, March 15, 2010 @ 11:20 PM
HIDDEN BLOGS
i realise many friends' blogs are hidden! now im lost to whose i can read. i cant find the mail that you may have sent to invite me OR if you think that i no longer read blogs... well i occasionally do update myself with your lives SO maybe you can reinvite me again? =D
or start doing so if you hadnt sent that mail over!
im in a dumbfounded situation. i dont know how to start a conversation with him to break my bond. it gets so hard to even get a chance to sit down and talk things over calmly. yes, its not settled yet, it has been dangling there since new year and its getting too draggy for me that i cant take it anymore! honestly, i dont know why im in such a tight situation BUT thats what is happening now~ i need a break.
PS. this is definitely not about BGR, so you dont even need to think it in that way.
perhaps these few days have been to cheery for me that im losing the momentum to work too. i had many many relaxing days off and now that my mind is in a lost transition, it maybe a good time to change an environment too! i enjoy the company that im having now, either msn chats or meal buddies that are often kinda impromtu~ and of course the night chat at vivo roof garden with long-time friends made a superb memories to look back too! that night, we shared many stuffs with one another and not forgetting the joking moments where we would all laugh together.........
i finally feel like i have a life, and im leading it my way now.
Tuesday, March 02, 2010 @ 12:14 PM
WEEKEND NIGHT FEVER
i had a blast during the weekend, literally, mentally and physically!
dollies had a chalet to celebrate our TAO in welcoming his 30th birthday! i would proudly announce the fact that the 2 lovebirds were the best host of the year! decorations, lightsticks, SOUND SYSTEM, food, alcohol, drinks, first aid kit, whatever you need, kath will tell you "wait ar" and you would know she was confident that she had already prepared them beforehand! the thing that shocked me was when miao said she was feeling slightly hot on the forehead, kath would disappear into her room and appear again with a 'koolfever' pad! and of course she also provided me with a mosquito spray that i would definitely suffer without it throughout the chalet!!
she had also many many food prepared to make sure no one is starved and of course the strawberry cake that she sourced high and low for, was very very delicious especially with the generous numbers of strawberries on it.
oh oh and back to the sound system...
its 30kg and the chalet was 3 storeys high! imagine longge up and down with it, very tedious but i guess all's paid off because everyone did enjoyed its companion! the blast with clubbing music is fantastic! the atmosphere with dim twinkling lightings and rotating colourful disco ball made the night even cosy for everyone :)
we played cards and chips too and the comical moment would arrive whenever a person wins! they would greedily "supp" the center pool of chips and that scene is always super funny! haha cant wait to have another chalet again! i had a good time last weekend despite a few hiccups but i will get well soon.
till then see you all soon! ;)
FAMILY
today i stumbled on a critical family ordeal.
im sorry friend, i never realised that you are going through all this with your family, it makes me feel bad for not being able to be there when you need a listening ear.
only till the point when i read about it, did i realise your strong front to cope with all the negativity thats happening to your surrounding. the misunderstandings accumulated from your sister, must have been an added burden to your current situation. the pain of a possibility of losing your father, must have been a trauma to your everyday life and of course not to mention your grandmother whom is feeling tremendously affected in addition to her inevitable aging illness...
im sorry for all this and prays that you would have the strength to walk through all this crisis and see a sliver lining as soon as possible. im definitely here if im needed at any point of time but in the meantime, please bear this mind,
THIS TOO, SHALL PASS.
Monday, March 15, 2010 @ 11:20 PM
HIDDEN BLOGS
i realise many friends' blogs are hidden! now im lost to whose i can read. i cant find the mail that you may have sent to invite me OR if you think that i no longer read blogs... well i occasionally do update myself with your lives SO maybe you can reinvite me again? =D
or start doing so if you hadnt sent that mail over!
im in a dumbfounded situation. i dont know how to start a conversation with him to break my bond. it gets so hard to even get a chance to sit down and talk things over calmly. yes, its not settled yet, it has been dangling there since new year and its getting too draggy for me that i cant take it anymore! honestly, i dont know why im in such a tight situation BUT thats what is happening now~ i need a break.
PS. this is definitely not about BGR, so you dont even need to think it in that way.
perhaps these few days have been to cheery for me that im losing the momentum to work too. i had many many relaxing days off and now that my mind is in a lost transition, it maybe a good time to change an environment too! i enjoy the company that im having now, either msn chats or meal buddies that are often kinda impromtu~ and of course the night chat at vivo roof garden with long-time friends made a superb memories to look back too! that night, we shared many stuffs with one another and not forgetting the joking moments where we would all laugh together.........
i finally feel like i have a life, and im leading it my way now.
Tuesday, March 02, 2010 @ 12:14 PM
WEEKEND NIGHT FEVER
i had a blast during the weekend, literally, mentally and physically!
dollies had a chalet to celebrate our TAO in welcoming his 30th birthday! i would proudly announce the fact that the 2 lovebirds were the best host of the year! decorations, lightsticks, SOUND SYSTEM, food, alcohol, drinks, first aid kit, whatever you need, kath will tell you "wait ar" and you would know she was confident that she had already prepared them beforehand! the thing that shocked me was when miao said she was feeling slightly hot on the forehead, kath would disappear into her room and appear again with a 'koolfever' pad! and of course she also provided me with a mosquito spray that i would definitely suffer without it throughout the chalet!!
she had also many many food prepared to make sure no one is starved and of course the strawberry cake that she sourced high and low for, was very very delicious especially with the generous numbers of strawberries on it.
oh oh and back to the sound system...
its 30kg and the chalet was 3 storeys high! imagine longge up and down with it, very tedious but i guess all's paid off because everyone did enjoyed its companion! the blast with clubbing music is fantastic! the atmosphere with dim twinkling lightings and rotating colourful disco ball made the night even cosy for everyone :)
we played cards and chips too and the comical moment would arrive whenever a person wins! they would greedily "supp" the center pool of chips and that scene is always super funny! haha cant wait to have another chalet again! i had a good time last weekend despite a few hiccups but i will get well soon.
till then see you all soon! ;)